Veg is really on this Married kick! Today on our way in to school, he said:
"So if get married, I'm supposed to be married for all my days on this earth to that person"
Well yes, that is the goal... He then asks "HOW" one goes about getting married. We talked about the process a tad, and he asked "AGAIN" how me and his Dad got married..
I told him that a Judge married us at a courthouse and he says "Ooh, Judges are cool" ..... here I am at age 6 planting the seeds for him NOT having a wedding... Yay... I may actually get out of planning another party, how cool is that!
OK, back on topic.... So he then says...
"What if a person wanted to get Unmarried because they changed their mind"
Wowsers.... no how do I answer this one?? So I explained that there is a court process they would have to go through, and that its no fun at all. And why its so important to find that special person that you have NO doubt of spending the rest of your life with... And when you are much older you will be able to make those decisions for yourself.
So he says... "My Goodness, that means Grandma has seen a lot of judges in her day"
HAHA... I about choked.... "Well yes she has" I reply....
He said he got mad at the girl he is going to marry the other day... and I asked if he was still going to marry her... And he said "Of course, just because you argue doesn't mean your not going to be married"
Hmmmm..... so he has learned something from me and his Dad :-)
And then he asked more questions about me and his Dad.... I finally said
"Yup, were stuck together for all of our days.... whether we argue, or change, or get upset, we are still together... We made a commitment to eachother, we said our vows, we love each other no matter what happens and we work through things that don't go our way. We communicate and use our words (sometimes too much) and always end up better because of it"
He replies with.. "Yeah, your right Mom, except the glue part?"
<WHAT?>
"You aren't really stuck together with glue because then you couldn't be driving me to school while Daddy went to work"
Sheww... At least we are all on the same page now.... Until next time....