I posted the other day about NeeNee's "spa" like vacation when she visits our home, and then mentioned the no-yelling.. but I don't want it to seem like we are this perfect little family in a perfect little house with out any issues... because if you've read my blog for any amount of time, or if you know my family, WE HAVE ISSUES...
But I'll start with the story of my Mom and how I grew up... She lives in a house where there is smoking. There is a TV on, even if people aren't in the room, and there is noise. Electronics, fans, appliances, NOISE! She also cleans, A LOT... and uses her tried and true all time products... the kind that aren't so good for you, and she takes care of everyone around her. Neighbors, friends, family, spouse.. And she works, and she cooks, and she.... Well lets just say, when she gets away she needs and deserves a BREAK!
So when she comes to our home its like an Oasis... but it Hasn't always been that way.
Meat, Toxic Cleaners, TV, Video Games, HFCS, artificial stuff, junk, junk, junk was every where you looked. We'd stop for fast food as in junk... We didn't know what a label was, let a lone reading it.
And then the story goes that I became Vegetarian for health reasons.. and a little non-dairy... Eventually I became allergic to eggs, so I eliminated those too... and one day I got Pregnant... I was told not to clean with the certain ingredients...But that my Hubby could... Great excuse for me not to clean, but got me thinking... If its not good for me to touch, inhale, or breath around those cleaners, then why would I want them in my house. Why would I use them once I dropped my cargo and have them around my baby... But I was still learning...
Over time, I began eliminating and replacing cleaners with more healthier options. I began eating more pure foods and feeding my baby only the best... If a label wasn't understandable then it didn't need to be in our bodies. I gained more access to Organics.
More time went on and I started reading, learning, taking in data.... Wondering what these foods were that I was eating or was about to feed my child. Wondering why I was still feeling bad some days.. I learned more about chemicals, preservatives, fake sweeteners, artificial colors and flavors... I realized that an Artificial Christmas tree is grand, but putting something without a name, just that it is ARTIFICIAL in my body... NO THANK YOU!! What is that really? ARTIFICIAL??
I started realizing that when something said "Made with real apples", if the apple was the very last ingredient, they could still say it had real apples in it. Or "made with 100% juice" sure.. and 90% other stuff... but there was 100% juice in a part of it. I looked at more labels and learned more hidden things. Or sugar free, yeah don't get me started on that one... Fat free... OY!
And over time, my pantry and fridge became void of these ingredients that I decided didn't need to be in our bodies.. I now read ALL labels.
Sure, we eat out a lot, and that food is not in its pure form. But what is in our home is void of all that other yuck. What I can control, I do.
Eventually we got a big health food store. I started replacing all my bathroom stuff. Shampoos, Conditioners, Soaps, to their all natural, no animal products or bi-products counter parts.
And one day we went through a bummer with my Young one, where he had to be hospitalized... There was NOTHING good about that torturous experience, except I learned what Doctors were and were not capable of.
Many doctors, specialists, tests, later, and it all came back to me needing to figure out what was wrong with my child. It came to me to say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! And to make a difference... Up to me to get him off the Medication roller coaster they put him on. And there was no looking back.
This experience pushed me over the edge in to finding ways to help our bodies fight sick bugs, help us stay well, boost our immune systems, find what triggers caused my child's episodes. And I learned that as a Mother and a Woman and a Human, that it was up to me to be his advocate. My advocate. It was up to me to make a difference in our lives and make us feel better naturally.
And most recently the Raw food journey... in addition to the removal of our Cable and "accidentally" never getting the service changed ... (whoops..silly me, *wink*) And so we now have Fridge full of fruits and veggies, and no TV :-)
I'd say this has been about a 12 year journey. (or more) its been a little dibble here and a dabble there, and learning as I go. It was certainly NOT an over night shift... But it is what works for our family.
And coming home always feels right! I wouldn't have it any other way.